No disrespect to those in that support the Black Culture. Those who has actually put in foot work to make sure that Blacks receive the opportunity set forth by the balance of our great universe. So far and so if, Thank You.
Now to the point, I can’t be the only one that’s sick and tired of Black Democrats vs Black Republicans. Ijust can’t understand why this war of Deep State and White Privilege derail us from bettering ourselves. There’ will be no better time than now to get all our affairs in order. The truth is no matter who wins there will be a problem. If Biden and his team wins get ready for the continuous of Black incarcerations, international sex trafficking, child abuse and other craziness. If Trump wins, all those hateful people and groups will terrorize cities, people and whatever means seem need to destroy.Can you imagine?
I honestly do not know why Us Black people think so low of ourselves. Inadvertently we do.Very low Culturalexpectation and drive to build self-development. Why? How can we know actually what is affecting us and still lack the ability to use commonsense? How when our most noticeable leaders have said us out. The thing is, look how we treat each other on all levels. Family, business and relationships.
We are dealing with a Pandemic for almost a year now. What I notice is our Black Culture did the contrast of we say we would do if we were given this opportunity. The opportunity to be a Better Black Culture. And I am not an excuse. There is so much more I can do as a Black man. So much more as of Black American Culture. Like focusing! Focusing on coming out the over four-hundred years of mistreatment, low pay and the neglect of equal education. We paid for everything America has given us and more one way or another. And I am not with the crowd of hopeful repreparations-if it comes, thank you. As a Black man. I just want the Full opportunity to its fullest extent.
As a Republican for almost five years, I grown up in a Christian home and Democrat supporting family. The Black Democrats vs Black Republicans is tearing us further apart.
One of my fondest memories as a young black child is stepping out onto my Baltimore front steps and looking up at the many stars. My biological father did not live with us but our stepdad bust his ass to make sure we were more than happy. There was a man of the House, my mother and five boys. We had a productive Black Family.
I know there are people with good attentions in Black Lives Matter, LGBTQ and other black organizations. But we have to understand is there is not enough revenue in the black culture to have all these purposes without a core. Our core should also be Black Children–our future leaders. And though we have support from other culture we should be as cautious as they are. We should not have to prove ourselves to be-just be! Waking up should not mean watching the news every day. It should be the news waking up to you every day.
I am a little concerned. And our communities should be as well. And in this time of pandemic turmoil, the one’s that will suffer is our children. And it’s starting to seem like with all our adult decisions our children become less important.
Apart of this is education. For years our school systems have suffered to no avail. Teacher has battled in on out to receive the necessary pay, equipment, facilities and respect as the educators of our future. Every parent had or now has a child with this teacher who suffers greatly. And dealing with the fact that not only do they have to teach our children, some has to be counselors, God parents and mental health specialist. I believe they deserve what they earned. And it’s a lot more than what they have been given.
Ok, to the point. I need some assistance putting some power behind this. I need two teachers, one from USA and one from a different country. I also want two college students, one from USA and one from another country to discuss their point of view on the teachers strike and how they all feel about returning to school or work during this pandemic.
If there’s any Teacher’s and College Students willing to join the conversation on the Oct 10. Please email me at email@example.com. Or, contact me on my website.
On today’s episode, I sit with my Uncle taking in his wisdom and advice as I always have. He sure with the world not just his accomplishments but loses. His struggle as a trouble youth and transitioning into the man he is today. I always thought oh my uncle as the O.G out of my grandmother boys. Proven to be a great father to his children and a loving uncle. Introducing, Mr. Daryl Fletcher Sr.
Please forgive my amateur directory skills. Proper preparation prevents poor performance. With this in mind I will continue to educate myself to make better edited videos.
Join me Saturday morning on ‘Where’s My Coffee’ with special guest Mr. Darrell Fletcher Sr, as we discus Growing up in Baltimore, transitioning from a trouble child, Being Married, the loss of his oldest son to gang violence and setting a good example for younger Black men.
To be honest, the segment on Captain Hunter’s Podcast bothered me. I thought we were trying to get to a bottom-line, a resolution to the struggle of Black relationships. Was I prepared? Yes, for my appearance. But knowing actually where the conversation would go. There were no actual questions. I guess our prospective were sufficient enough. See, there was a lot I did not take into account.
1.) Age group: I will say in this segment I was not mature enough relationship wise. Nor did I have enough experience.
2.) Maturity: Everyone else was sound in their positions and perspective.
3.) Growth and Development: Except me, the panel of each person had over 35 years of relationship experience, with at least 15 years as an adult.
(note: That doesn’t no mean someone else my age could not do better. This is my burden).
That does not mean our experience, maturity and growth should differ much. Is there really a difference? Experts can give a better easement- in phycology or cancelling. -There is no excuse to why I failed to deliver exactually what I meant. Nevertheless, there were multiple reasons why I am confused-or, as someone stated ‘As if I had been hurt before’. Better words, Damaged! I could have vented. Not towards the person per-say. But because of the statement. Isn’t this the reason of the conversation? Aren’t this why BLACK relationships being in such shambles? Maybe that’s what threw me over the edge. When Dr. B stated ‘it deeper than communication. I concur cold heartily. I was asking myself, why are people agreeing with some of what I am saying but failed to stand on it? Black Men? What I mean is when it comes to these subject men always lose. My experience has taught me that our mothers secrete is meticulous, strategic and in harmony. Woman togetherness. Every man has a dispute but woman has their one for all argument, Cheaters!
(note: After talking to a fellow Podcaster- and friends, my assumption are as stated. Assumptions. Just as men, woman have concerns as well).
Does this on particular argument put woman on a pedal stole? Allow me to make sense. This is what woman deal with daily. Dead beat dads, dead beat children’s father, multiple different children mothers. Jail birds and no jobs. Living with parents-or, with another woman. People, there’s so much more. Big ups to our Black woman-cause if it was me. I tell you… If you don’t have a high school or G.E.D and more than one kid, I’m sorry (though my fiancé has 5 of her own). That’s the difference between husband (man) and a boyfriend (boy). Ignorance isn’t hard to pin point. I have to have standards and commonsense as well. I wouldn’t assume her as a hoe. It would be more so, you were ignorant enough to fall for the hood trap more than once, period. Man and woman.
As a Black man, the standards set forth by our woman are pretty basic- in abroad and general conversations. In their private abodes of Ladies togetherness. It’s a little fabricated and extravagant. What bewilders me is a man will speak on this to his homeboys. But in a circle of political correction will brag on what a man is supposed to do (our Steve Harveys); knowing damn well Black Western masculinity is given by our woman. Woman always had the choice of given man that title (yeah-yeah, some have earned the title. But a woman can tarnish it as quickly). But then, who are man we to give woman any kind of sobriquet? We can speak on how our ancestors display what we assume as love, family and relationships. Then we can speak on our Western perspective. Bottom line, our concepts are selfish, one sided most of the time and unnatural (Men and Woman), unbalanced, to needy and fucked up! I hurt you. You hurt me. Know…, let’s hurt someone else.
Black Love ages 21-40
Now there may be some back lashes between ages 30-40. Why, because there is a large percentage of Black men in disbelief. To my point. A lot of Black men don’t believe nothing a lot of woman says (ladies. As you see I didn’t say all). Woman say it themselves. Woman will tell everything her girlfriend man does. But want to play loyal when they are in the wrong. Complaining about cheating than want to steal one another man. To Black Men, Black Woman ae the biggest contradictors in this matter. Like for instance. Why are the Men called boys and are boys are becoming girls? How can a woman between the ages of 35-60 can date a 21-30 young man? But when a 40-year-old man dates 21-26, he a pervert? And as for perverts… As recalled, the problems start at home. Single parent homes(mothers) with woman pride, misguidance and vehement hate for thier prior spouse. Black men are ignorant to the cries because we are constantly prosecuted by criminals.
Black Families 80’s-2000’s
There’s a big percentage of elders from the 40’s through the 80’s are in retirement homes, deceased or flat out fed-up with the following generations. Though elders still relay knowledge, they will not directly work with us. When it comes to old vs young. The old school believe in their ways-which was better than now-a-days. So, lets stick to our era.
50’s – 80’s
A lot of the parents were having children while children of the 80’s. These now adults want to be married, men and women. All whom don’t trust one another because of previous entanglements (word to Mrs. Picket-Smith).
(note: Ladies, we do know about your pain. You are our mothers, our sisters and daughters. We also know that our communities are not products of rape abuse birth-especially with our abortion rate. And If so, we don’t).
Cynical behavior like ‘you a cheater! No, you’re a cheater! The generations of promiscuous relationships. Thus, producing new generations of misguided, miseducated and lustful children, now pointing fingers. Our sources of continuous miseducated rebels. Most important, failing to further the dignity of our future for Black Families.
This to me is a subject that has no bottom-line. As long as we are humans, this will happen. Men lie. Woman lies. And those in between. So, I will let the expert solve this. But what I will say is, it’s all our choice. It is our choice to cheat. Our choice to be battered. Our choice to be abused. It’s all our choice! Is it right? No! We just have to want more for ourselves without being egotistic….